Celestine Donkor has outlined what she believes are three important qualities women should evaluate before committing to marriage. She cautioned that overlooking them could lead to serious challenges later in life.
In a video shared on her Instagram page, the Ghanaian singer said one of the clearest warning signs in a relationship is a partner who responds to conflict by withdrawing communication for long periods.
She argued that women should think twice about marrying a man who routinely gives the silent treatment whenever disagreements arise, explaining that unresolved conflicts can place enormous strain on a marriage.
“The first thing to look out for is silent treatment. If there’s an issue and the person gets angry, then goes the whole day, weeks, or even months without speaking to you, you should be very careful about marrying such a person.
“Women are naturally conversational. When there’s a problem, they usually want to talk about it and resolve it. So if someone resorts to giving you the silent treatment, it’s something that can be very difficult to live with in marriage,” she said.
Beyond communication, Donkor said sexual compatibility should not be ignored before marriage. She encouraged women to honestly evaluate whether their expectations and level of interest in intimacy are compatible with those of their partners, warning that significant differences could become a recurring source of tension.
“The second thing is sexual currency. If a man’s sex drive is very high and he talks about sex all the time, you need to assess yourself. If you don’t have the same level of interest in sex, that marriage may face constant challenges. Make sure your sexual currency aligns before you decide to get married,” she stated.
Her final piece of advice focused on generosity and financial values. Donkor said a man’s willingness to pay tithes can offer insight into his character, arguing that reluctance to give to God may reflect how he approaches giving in other areas of life.
“Check whether he is stingy. Look at whether he pays his tithe. Don’t marry a man who doesn’t pay tithes. If he can’t give God 10%, then imagine how he will treat you, a fellow human being,” Celestine Donkor further stated.
Watch her statement below.