Celestine Donkor has made an interesting point about intimacy in marriage after urging wives to pay attention to their husbands’ sexual needs. She warned that repeated rejection could create cracks in a relationship.
In a video shared on social media, the Ghanaian singer addressed one of the most painful moments a married man can experience: seeking intimacy from his wife and being turned away.
Celestine Donkor said she believes sexual connection plays an important role in sustaining marriages, arguing that persistent denial can leave husbands feeling hurt, frustrated and emotionally distant.
“Dear married women, the most painful thing to happen to your husband is the man wanting to have sex with his wife and for the wife to say ‘I am tired’. It is so painful. The man would be angry the whole night because men are wired naturally to be awake and standing by 4am,” she said.
The gospel singer explained that sexual desire is a natural part of human experience, particularly among men, and suggested that husbands should be able to find fulfilment and companionship within their marriages.
She questioned the alternative for a husband who feels rejected by the person he has committed his life to, emphasising that intimacy is one of the responsibilities that come with marriage.
“It is so painful that someone that nature has not asked permission from to arouse him has come for his own wife and is being denied. If your husband shouldn’t touch you, who should he go and touch?” she questioned.
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According to Celestine Donkor, a lack of physical intimacy can gradually weaken the bond between couples and create emotional separation.
She described the possibility of a marriage ending because of unresolved sexual issues as a painful situation, especially when couples fail to communicate and address their differences.
“The saddest thing to happen to you is to have a broken marriage because of lack of sex. When God has generously blessed you with beauty and a special hole meant to be enjoyed by your husband,” Celestine indicated.
The singer encouraged wives to approach intimacy with openness and view it as an important part of their marital commitment.
She added that repeatedly withholding affection from a spouse could have consequences that may only become clear later in the relationship.
“Woman, be generous with your body to your own husband. If you don’t give it to your husband, who would you give it to? I promise you, if you keep being stingy with your body towards your own husband, one day you will regret it,” Celestine Donkor averred.
Watch her statement below.
@celestinedonkormusic Dear wives, let's talk about S****XXX. Highlights of what you have been missing on #BedtimeFellowship ♬ original sound – Celestine Donkor