Ghanaian gospel musician, Esther Smith, has opened up about her failed marriage by sharing a deeply personal reflection while cautioning women against succumbing to pressure to marry.
Speaking in a candid interview with Delay, the singer described her past relationship as a difficult chapter that significantly impacted her life and career.
Esther Smith used the platform to advise women to make independent decisions about marriage, stressing that societal expectations should not dictate such a major life choice.
“Don’t let anybody put pressure on you to marry. As a senior sister, that’s my advice to you,” she stated.
The gospel artist was previously married to Rev. Ahinkan Bonsu in the mid-2000s. However, the union lasted only about four years and ended in a highly publicised divorce between 2008 and 2010.
Reflecting on that period, Esther Smith revealed that her marriage coincided with a critical phase in her music career, particularly after the success of her debut hit song Ma Won Nsan.
According to her, things began to fall apart shortly after she entered into marriage.
“After Ma Won Nsan, marriage came into the picture… I began to sink. It was a very hard time,” she recalled.
She admitted that the challenges she faced in the marriage affected her focus and direction, stating that her vision became “dimmed” during that period.
The breakdown of the marriage became a public issue in 2008 when reports emerged that the singer had travelled to Europe for a music engagement while pregnant.
Her then-husband reportedly accused her of relocating to Germany, where she gave birth and held the child’s outdooring ceremony without his knowledge—claims that fueled media attention at the time.
Now, years after the ordeal, Esther Smith says the experience has shaped her perspective on relationships and personal growth.
She encouraged women to prioritise their well-being and happiness, even if it means remaining single.
“Even if you’re not married, you can adopt a child. Don’t marry for someone to play with your heart,” she advised.
Her remarks have since sparked conversations online, with many praising her honesty while others reflect on the pressures women face regarding marriage in society.