Ghanaian Highlife star Akwaboah Jnr has expressed confusion over why men would choose to marry multiple women, given the challenges that come with managing a single relationship.
Speaking on Ayekoo Ayekoo with Nana Romeo on Accra 100.5 FM on Wednesday, September 18, 2024, the singer cum songwriter addressed those who justify polygamy by referencing biblical figures such as King Solomon.
The one God who gave divine wisdom above all others ended up in the temples of idols. The lust for women led him into idolatry, even though he was initially on God’s side,” Akwaboah noted, referencing Solomon’s eventual fall into idolatry despite his famed wisdom.
The award-winning musician continued by cautioning young men who use biblical patriarchs to validate their polygamous inclinations. He urged them to consider the consequences faced by these figures later in life.
“When we read about David and others, let’s not stay on the initial glories, but let’s pay attention to the end also,” he advised, suggesting that men should reflect on the entire story, not just the successes.
He went on to criticize the pressures men bring upon themselves by engaging in polygamous or promiscuous lifestyles. He expressed disbelief at men who remain unfaithful, even when their wives are “attractive, submissive, resourceful, and sexually adventurous.”
As a newlywed, Akwaboah shared his personal thoughts on fidelity, acknowledging his human imperfections. “For now – I’m not an angel just like everyone else – so I cannot personally say I will be faithful or otherwise,” he admitted.
However, he emphasized his commitment to avoiding infidelity, which he believes leads to ruin in relationships.
The instrumentalist also touched on the issue of unfaithfulness among women, stating: “Some women are heavily unfaithful, but it’s secretly done.”
